The fact is, our eyes and a discipline of them, can make a massive difference in our ability to be positioned for success. Not to mention, objectification vilifies your view of the opposite sex and is very disrespectful. So, unless you’ve moved under a rock, you can’t help but to notice that we are living in a day where sex is used to promote and sell almost anything. With the physical and sexual exploitation of humanity in media, social media, and film, it becomes necessary for believers to become honest about the state of these times and strategic within them. FACT: I don’t care how long you’ve been in your relationship with God, no one is immune to falling victim to objectification and it's unchecked desires. This past weekend, I attended a men's conference and this topic was a rare inclusions within our discussions; furthermore, it was also a very important and in-depth moment of group share. .
Are you striving to remain committed to morality? Are you consistently failing? Have you been struggling with an illicit longing to compromise your sanctity? If you are, then you have to become aware of your vulnerability to the enemy and you must become connected, prayerful, and disciplined with your Savior. For anyone who’s in the midst of such a challenging time, I’ve comprised this list of 5 simple and serious resolves to aid you in your fight against the temptation of sexual immorality.
Finally, know that accountability and transparency is a MUST! This is without a doubt; after all, no one can make it alone (cf. Proverbs 27:17). We are all in need of some measure of accountability and restoration (cf. James 5:16). So, what did you think? Was this helpful? Which point registered with you the most? Let me know your thoughts in the comments's below. Thinking of a friend who could use this post? Share it with them. Also, subscribe to the blog. Imperfectly, Kevin D. Jones, Sr. (@kevindjonessr)
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Minnie Thornton
10/31/2016 05:01:01 pm
You are so right, this topic is Not taught in the Church. We are also Not taught about Transparency & Accountability in a Marriage (or Relationship. Secrets ( "my personal space & time & relationships") destroy.. not bring together or grow a Marriage.
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K. Jones, Sr
10/31/2016 05:02:38 pm
Very true; however, change is possible. Thanks for the support.
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Kaneica Allen
10/31/2016 11:42:15 pm
I am very glad you are addressing this topic/issue. Especially point no. 4: "Don’t be fooled, pornography is a problem" and "know that accountability and transparency is a MUST! ".
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K. Jones, Sr.
10/31/2016 11:45:37 pm
Great response my sis. And you are absolutely correct. There is a great need to safeguard our relationships from this very tough attack. Thanks for your thoughts.
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Ma
11/1/2016 08:55:13 am
Well, can I be open and honest? Kev I love you but sweetie I had to look up the word "objectification". Now that I got that clarity, which means to look at or treat a person as an object, not as a person with feelings and emotions and desires. Just a thing. Correct? Now. My comment is when each of us men and women can Grasp that concept we will be more careful in how we look at, how we speak to, how treat each other. The dating area is crucial. I see so many and hear many say. I am dating for fun. Train up a child in The WAY. When he is old he will not depart from it. The reason for dating is like you said. Kev. Not for fun
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K. Jones, Sr.
11/1/2016 05:16:18 pm
Ma, I love your honesty. Your words are so true.
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